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Hi Fam presents

Married-U

Ready to make your dream relationship a reality?

Learn how to ditch the drama but keep the marriage so that you can feel cherished, adored and taken care of.

Without nagging or dragging your partner to hours of talk therapy.

He doesn't even have to know. 
 

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Hi Fam Presents: 

 
 Married-U 

 
Ready to make your dream relationship  a reality?

Learn how to ditch the drama but keep the marriage so that you can feel cherished, adored and taken care of.

Without nagging or dragging your partner to hours of talk therapy.

He doesn't even have to know. 

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 Married U Teaches You How To

Create the marriage you want
with the partner you've got.

✅ Fall in love on purpose.
✅ Switch the marriage, not your spouse.
✅ Feel cherished, adored and taken care of.

"When I joined Married-U, I was ready to give up on my marriage. Today my marriage has had a complete overhaul! It's practically a different marriage altogether."

 - Chelsea 
"In Married-U, I spend an hour each week of being immersed in my own growth rather than trying to sort out my spouse's issues. I get a lot more accomplished in that hour than I have in months of therapy."
- Leah
"I was really hesitant to join. I thought, ‘My husband is going to kill me if I spend the money and it will make things so much worse!’ But I knew I had to do it, and it’s living up to all my expectations. It’s brilliant."
- Marine
 The Problem:  

😫Marriage is in crisis😫

We are collectively failing at creating stable, loving, long term relationships. It seems the only two options are painfully ending a marriage or somehow struggling through it. That's not good enough.

It's not your fault.
It's not just you.

Couples Today Are Struggling For A Reason...

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Growing Apart

We don't always start - or stay - on the same page. Feeling out of sync with each-other is a common modern problem which is exasperated by digital distractions. When you and your partner seem misaligned it can easily lead to questioning compatibility.

The Rat Race

When you're constantly buried under a to-do list, touched out, overwhelmed and dealing with big stressors like financial uncertainty and sleepless nights -  low libido and emotional distance become inevitable. 

Growing Resentment

As the load of child-rearing, home-making and financial provision gets heavier - and as we invest less in our bond and connection - our list of unmet expectations grows. This can lead you feeling like there's something wrong with your partner.

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Couples easily spend over $10,375 per year on couples-therapy 🥵.

Yet, this often doesn't work!

Why? Because whilst empathy and self awareness are useful, we're often still missing the one thing we were never taught in school, at home or in university...

 The Problem:  

😫Marriage is in crisis😫

We are collectively failing at creating stable, loving, long term relationships. It seems the only two options are painfully ending a marriage or somehow struggling through it. That's not good enough.

It's not your fault.
It's not just you.

Couples Today Are Struggling For A Reason...

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Growing Apart

We don't always start - or stay - on the same page. Feeling out of sync with each-other is a common modern problem which is exasperated by digital distractions. When you and your partner seem misaligned it can easily lead to questioning compatibility.

The Rat Race

When you're constantly buried under a to-do list, touched out, overwhelmed and dealing with big stressors like financial uncertainty and sleepless nights -  low libido and emotional distance become inevitable. 

Growing Resentment

As the load of child-rearing, home-making and financial provision gets heavier - and as we invest less in our bond and connection - our list of unmet expectations grows. This can lead you feeling like there's something wrong with your partner.

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Couples easily spend over $10,375 per year on couples-therapy 🥵.

Yet, this often doesn't work!

Why? Because whilst empathy and self awareness are useful, we're often still missing the one thing we were never taught in school, at home or in university...

The Solution: 

😍Marriage Skills😍

Are you ready to end the madness (but not the marriage)?

When you enroll in Married-U, you will learn Modern Marriage Mastery.

You'll build the skills you were never taught to creating a well functioning, life-long, meaningful and supremely fulfilling marriage that you love being in. 

"My husband and I don't argue in front of our children anymore. Some days my husband cleans and cooks more than I do!"
 - Charissa 
"Holy fricking moly. The peaceful communication module has completely reshaped my relationship with my partner."
- Tanya
"Candid, open communication feels authentic and healing. Even our intimacy has improved. Is this normal?"
- Yasmine
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Introducing the All Time Favorite Hi Fam course:

Married-U

110 Proven Skills To

Create The Marriage You Want
With The Partner You've Got

Married-U Curriculum 
Build a lasting foundation upon which you can build your unbreakable family. Bust myths, reframe mindsets, resolve conflicts and become deeply understood by your partner!
4 Marriage Upgrades
With that sturdy foundation - it's time to soar. Create that passionate, meaningful, joyful legacy relationship that brings you safety and energy for you and generations to come.
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Put your results on steroids with these life changing extras that are designed to nix confusion, deepen your learning and guarantee your success.
No Therapy | Guaranteed Results | Your Partner Doesn't Even Have to Know
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Married-U Curriculum 
Build a lasting foundation upon which you can build your unbreakable family. Bust myths, reframe mindsets, resolve conflicts and become deeply understood by your partner!
4 Marriage Upgrades
With that sturdy foundation - it's time to soar. Create that passionate, meaningful, joyful legacy relationship that brings you safety and energy for you and generations to come.
Epic Bonuses
Put your results on steroids with these life changing extras that are designed to nix confusion, deepen your learning and guarantee your success.
 No Therapy
Guaranteed Results
Your Partner Doesn't Even Have to Know 
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"Amazing and transformational. You have saved our marriage. Thank you so much!"

- Tara
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 How Does It Work? 

The Married-U Core Curriculum

 Weeks 1-3 
Our life-changing lessons are short, punchy and deep.
Let's unpack what you'll learn and how it will transform your relationship. 
 
 
 Module One: 

Introduction & Reflection

From Nag & Drag To Charm & Disarm

Fast track that deep self awareness, understand who you are as a couple, your strengths, weaknesses and vision moving forward. 

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Feel empowered with a deep awareness of your psychology - so that you can release yourself from past hurts and damaging patterns.
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Get to know your partner on a level you never have before- making change-work and building deep security faster and easier.
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Get crystal clear on the nature of your relationship - so that you can forge forward whilst emphasizing the positive and healing the negative aspects of your relationship.
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2 Weeks, 10 minutes per day
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"I just feel heard and understood. I walk away knowing I have work to do but I feel clarity and bliss… an afternoon with you is like doing an afternoon of yoga and meditation (I feel the same after both! Light and at peace!). Thanks for your wisdom"
- Amy

"I've seen a massive shift back to my loving self. I see what that mental shift from "half in half out" to "all in" can do. I shared my journal on commitment with him. I know it could be an arduous road ahead but it feels good to be committed to the process and loving towards each other."

- Yasmine
 
 
 Module Two: 

Mindsets & Myth Busting

From Confusion To Conviction

It's time to bust the modern myths that lead 50% of marriages to disintegrate - and replace those with mindsets that actually serve you, your partner and your marriage's highest good.

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Re-construct your understanding of what a marriage should be - giving you conviction, confidence and consistency in your commitment.
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Put away fantasies of divorce once and for all - so that you can go all-in and make this marriage last a lifetime.
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Discover the ways culture is tearing marriages apart - so that you can be savvy and protected against these detrimental ideas.
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3 Weeks, 10 minutes per day
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Deep & Inspiring
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"It's become easier for me to understand my partner. My partner has recognized and thanked me for all I do for the 3 of us (it's usually hard to get this kind of appreciation from him). This course gave me the power to not take anything personally. I am very proud and happy of how we are coping."

- Ketaki

"I can't believe this is the same marriage. This is the same man. I am the same woman. Except we're so not. It's so not. It's transformed. It's the marriage I always fantasized about - right here in my own home."

- Talya
 
 
 Module Three: 

Communication

From Breakdown to Breakthrough

They say communication is the key to an amazing marriage - and yet most of us lament that our partner is a poor communicator. Unlearn poor patterns of communication and find out the few, key skills that really work to build understanding and in turn be truly understood. 

In This Season:
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Become masterful at expressing yourself - so that your partner actually wants to hear and understand you deeply.
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Gain hard core skills to encourage intimate and meaningful communication from your partner - giving you that deep emotional connection you crave.
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Learn how to diffuse and deescelate any conflict- making your arguments opportunities for meaningful growth and connection.
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20 Videos
3 Weeks, 10 minutes per day
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Deep & Inspiring
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"I feel that going through this and listening with the genuine intention of “falling in love on purpose” rather than originally it was a desperate act of trying to change my partner any way I could to save our marriage. I feel this intention in my mind and repeating it to myself throughout is helping me to look at myself more honestly and objectively and receive more from the material. The whole concept of falling in love on purpose has been a game changer for me mentally :)"

- Rachel

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"I just joined and even the first lesson is BLOWING MY MIND. It is seriously amazing, powerful stuff and I'm so looking forward to working through the whole course. I've been wanting to do it for a year but held off due to the cost, but I can already tell it will be worth the investment."

- Jess

 The Married-U Upgrades 

  Weeks 4-7  
Once you're done with the core curriculum - you'll be ready for our marriage upgrades. Everyone wants their husband or wife to be an incredible life partner, a passionate lover, a life-long friend and a trusty coparent. But most of us have no clue how to be any of these. It's time to change that. Married-U offers you the University level of marriage transformation. Let's take a peek inside these next four modules.  

 The Married-U
 Upgrades 

  Weeks 4-7  
 Once you're done with the core curriculum - you'll be ready for our marriage upgrades. Everyone wants their husband or wife to be an incredible life partner, a passionate lover, a life-long friend and a trusty coparent. But most of us have no clue how to be any of these. It's time to change that. Married-U offers you the University level of marriage transformation. Let's take a peek inside these next four modules.   
 Marriage Upgrade #1 

Partner

From Tag-Team to Dream Team

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10 Videos, 5-20 minutes each Designed to be memorable, punchy and impactful
PDF JournalTo take all of your insights and put them into action
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Key topics: Aligning on finances, family, health and beyond
1 week, 20 minutes per day Plus time for the PDF Journal and practicing what you've learnt!
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Do you ever find that you and your partner aren't quite syncing in your journey to build a shared life? Perhaps there's a sense of disharmony or even opposition in the way you both navigate your lives and construct your desired lifestyle.

I can relate, as I used to experience a disconnect where we seemed to be heading in divergent directions, with our visions misaligned and our actions stepping on each other's toes. It was like we were missing the mark on functioning as a harmonious, complementary dream team – the kind of power couple that works seamlessly together.

The frustration and disappointment were palpable, especially when it came to financial decisions, family matters, and managing our schedules. Even the concept of our ideal home (and the country it's in!) or the frequency of spending time with extended family triggered differing viewpoints.

This sort of "chalk and cheese" partnership can potentially erode what's otherwise a solid marriage, eventually transforming it into a battleground of sour competition and lingering resentment.

It's time to strengthen those teamwork muscles and evolve into the power couple you've envisioned – a team that not only high-fives each other but also collaborates wholeheartedly to manifest your dreams.

Any of these sounds familiar?

  • Do you dream of working side by side to plan projects, envision a home, embark on a relocation, or overhaul your lifestyle, but worry about clashes erupting into conflicts?
  • Do you yearn for more financial autonomy and confidence, yet fear the criticism, undermining behaviors, or pessimistic commentary that might arise?
  • Do you wish you could navigate tough times as a united front – like navigating family illnesses or caring for elderly parents – but often feel unsupported, like your partner isn't truly standing by your side?
 
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"I have seen a huge transformation in our relationship. Just yesterday I was looking at my husband with curiosity and love. We talk a lot, we are connecting way more, we're spending a lot of time together, we help each other... we are complete partners now."
-Amina

 Marriage Upgrade #1 

Partner

From Tag-Team to Dream Team

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 Quick Look Inside: 
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10 Videos, 5-20 minutes each Designed to be memorable, punchy and impactful
PDF JournalTo take all of your insights and put them into action
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Key topics: Aligning on finances, family, health and beyond
1 week, 20 minutes per day Plus time for the PDF Journal and practicing what you've learnt!
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Do you ever find that you and your partner aren't quite syncing in your journey to build a shared life? Perhaps there's a sense of disharmony or even opposition in the way you both navigate your lives and construct your desired lifestyle.

I can relate, as I used to experience a disconnect where we seemed to be heading in divergent directions, with our visions misaligned and our actions stepping on each other's toes. It was like we were missing the mark on functioning as a harmonious, complementary dream team – the kind of power couple that works seamlessly together.

The frustration and disappointment were palpable, especially when it came to financial decisions, family matters, and managing our schedules. Even the concept of our ideal home (and the country it's in!) or the frequency of spending time with extended family triggered differing viewpoints.

This sort of "chalk and cheese" partnership can potentially erode what's otherwise a solid marriage, eventually transforming it into a battleground of sour competition and lingering resentment.

It's time to strengthen those teamwork muscles and evolve into the power couple you've envisioned – a team that not only high-fives each other but also collaborates wholeheartedly to manifest your dreams.

Any of these sounds familiar?

  • Do you dream of working side by side to plan projects, envision a home, embark on a relocation, or overhaul your lifestyle, but worry about clashes erupting into conflicts?
  • Do you yearn for more financial autonomy and confidence, yet fear the criticism, undermining behaviors, or pessimistic commentary that might arise?
  • Do you wish you could navigate tough times as a united front – like navigating family illnesses or caring for elderly parents – but often feel unsupported, like your partner isn't truly standing by your side?
 
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"I have seen a huge transformation in our relationship. Just yesterday I was looking at my husband with curiosity and love. We talk a lot, we are connecting way more, we're spending a lot of time together, we help each other... we are complete partners now."
-Amina

 Marriage Upgrade #2 

Friend

From Ignored to Adored

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10 Videos, 5-20 minutes each Designed to be memorable, punchy and impactful
PDF Journal: To take all of your insights and put them into action
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Key topics: Enjoying each others company, loyalty, connection, fun & joy
1 week, 20 minutes per day Plus time for the PDF Journal and practicing what you've learnt!
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Do you ever sense that the connection with your partner lacks the depth of a genuine friendship? Perhaps you're missing the camaraderie and close bond that defines a truly profound friendship while navigating life as a married couple. I can empathize – there was a time when I felt like we were more like acquaintances than the close friends we aspired to be.

The essence of a true friendship was missing, leaving a gap where mutual understanding, shared interests, and unwavering support should have been. It felt like we were navigating our marriage without the strong foundation of friendship that often serves as a bedrock for lasting relationships.

The conversations seemed superficial, lacking the openness and vulnerability that genuine friends enjoy. Interests diverged, and quality time together often felt more like a mere coexistence than a truly fulfilling partnership.

This disconnect can slowly erode the essence of what your marriage could be, diluting the potential joy and companionship that a strong friendship can bring.

It's time to bridge that gap and cultivate the genuine friendship you both yearn for – evolving into a married couple who not only share life's journey but also deeply understand, support, and uplift each other as cherished friends.

Do any of these scenarios sound familiar?

  • Do you dream of sharing heartfelt conversations, indulging in shared hobbies, or embarking on adventures together, but struggle to find common ground?
  • Do you long for the kind of friendship where you can openly express your thoughts, fears, and dreams without reservation, yet find barriers preventing you from fully connecting?
  • Are you seeking a sense of companionship that goes beyond mere cohabitation, transforming your marriage into a vibrant, supportive partnership reminiscent of a close-knit friendship?
 
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"I got more in 1 hour with you then I have from 10 years of therapy."
-Marianne

 Marriage Upgrade #2 

Friend

From Ignored to Adored

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 Quick Look Inside: 
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10 Videos, 5-20 minutes each Designed to be memorable, punchy and impactful
PDF Journal: To take all of your insights and put them into action
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Key topics: Enjoying each others company, loyalty, connection, fun & joy
1 week, 20 minutes per day Plus time for the PDF Journal and practicing what you've learnt!
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Do you ever sense that the connection with your partner lacks the depth of a genuine friendship? Perhaps you're missing the camaraderie and close bond that defines a truly profound friendship while navigating life as a married couple. I can empathize – there was a time when I felt like we were more like acquaintances than the close friends we aspired to be.

The essence of a true friendship was missing, leaving a gap where mutual understanding, shared interests, and unwavering support should have been. It felt like we were navigating our marriage without the strong foundation of friendship that often serves as a bedrock for lasting relationships.

The conversations seemed superficial, lacking the openness and vulnerability that genuine friends enjoy. Interests diverged, and quality time together often felt more like a mere coexistence than a truly fulfilling partnership.

This disconnect can slowly erode the essence of what your marriage could be, diluting the potential joy and companionship that a strong friendship can bring.

It's time to bridge that gap and cultivate the genuine friendship you both yearn for – evolving into a married couple who not only share life's journey but also deeply understand, support, and uplift each other as cherished friends.

Do any of these scenarios sound familiar?

  • Do you dream of sharing heartfelt conversations, indulging in shared hobbies, or embarking on adventures together, but struggle to find common ground?
  • Do you long for the kind of friendship where you can openly express your thoughts, fears, and dreams without reservation, yet find barriers preventing you from fully connecting?
  • Are you seeking a sense of companionship that goes beyond mere cohabitation, transforming your marriage into a vibrant, supportive partnership reminiscent of a close-knit friendship?
 
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 (Value - $625) 
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Included in Married-U!

"I got more in 1 hour with you then I have from 10 years of therapy."
-Marianne

 Marriage Upgrade #3 

Lover

From Roommates to Romance

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10 Videos, 5-20 minutes each Designed to be memorable, punchy and impactful
PDF Journal: To take all of your insights and put them into action
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Key topics: Masculine & Feminine, Polarization, Hypergamy, Flirtation and tension
1 week, 20 minutes per day Plus time for the PDF Journal and practicing what you've learnt!
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Do you ever sense that the passion in your marriage has dimmed, leaving you both yearning for the fiery intensity that defines passionate lovers? It's a sentiment I'm familiar with – every relationship goes through a time when it lacks the sizzling chemistry and magnetic attraction that fuels passionate love.

The spark that once ignited our desires seemed to have faded, replaced by routine and familiarity. Our intimate moments felt like they were missing the electrifying energy and deep connection that passionate lovers share.

The physical and emotional intimacy we craved seemed elusive, as if we were moving through the motions without truly embracing the raw, exhilarating passion that lovers experience.

This absence of passion can gradually chip away at the fervor your marriage once held, diluting the intensity that passionate love can infuse into a relationship.

It's time to reignite that flame and transform into a couple of passionate lovers – rekindling the magnetic chemistry, fervent attraction, and intense intimacy that makes a relationship not just enduring, but thrilling.

Do any of these scenarios resonate?

  • Do you yearn for stolen glances, heated embraces, and nights filled with desire, but find yourselves caught in a routine that stifles the passionate fires?
  • Do you dream of rekindling the kind of intimacy that makes your hearts race, your pulses quicken, and your bodies ignite with longing?
  • Are you seeking to rediscover the all-consuming passion that brought you together in the first place, turning your marriage into a whirlwind of intense attraction and fiery affection?
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"I finally feel we're lifelong friends. Best friends. It feels safe. It's massive." 

- Henrietta

 Marriage Upgrade #3 

Lover

From Roommates to Romance

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 Quick Look Inside: 
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10 Videos, 5-20 minutes each Designed to be memorable, punchy and impactful
PDF Journal: To take all of your insights and put them into action
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Key topics: Masculine & Feminine, Polarization, Hypergamy, Flirtation and tension
1 week, 20 minutes per day Plus time for the PDF Journal and practicing what you've learnt!
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Do you ever sense that the passion in your marriage has dimmed, leaving you both yearning for the fiery intensity that defines passionate lovers? It's a sentiment I'm familiar with – every relationship goes through a time when it lacks the sizzling chemistry and magnetic attraction that fuels passionate love.

The spark that once ignited our desires seemed to have faded, replaced by routine and familiarity. Our intimate moments felt like they were missing the electrifying energy and deep connection that passionate lovers share.

The physical and emotional intimacy we craved seemed elusive, as if we were moving through the motions without truly embracing the raw, exhilarating passion that lovers experience.

This absence of passion can gradually chip away at the fervor your marriage once held, diluting the intensity that passionate love can infuse into a relationship.

It's time to reignite that flame and transform into a couple of passionate lovers – rekindling the magnetic chemistry, fervent attraction, and intense intimacy that makes a relationship not just enduring, but thrilling.

Do any of these scenarios resonate?

  • Do you yearn for stolen glances, heated embraces, and nights filled with desire, but find yourselves caught in a routine that stifles the passionate fires?
  • Do you dream of rekindling the kind of intimacy that makes your hearts race, your pulses quicken, and your bodies ignite with longing?
  • Are you seeking to rediscover the all-consuming passion that brought you together in the first place, turning your marriage into a whirlwind of intense attraction and fiery affection?
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 (Value - $625)
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"I finally feel we're lifelong friends. Best friends. It feels safe. It's massive." 

- Henrietta

 Marriage Upgrade #4 

Co-Parent

From Undermined to Aligned

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10 Videos, 5-20 minutes each Designed to be memorable, punchy and impactful
PDF Journal: To take all of your insights and put them into action
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Key topics: Parenting styles and conflicts, united front, respect and communication with the children
1 week, 20 minutes per day Plus time for the PDF Journal and practicing what you've learnt!
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Do you ever feel like your journey as parents is overshadowing your partnership as a married couple? It's a sentiment I understand well – there was a time when my focus on parenting my way completely overshadowed my marriage and led us to disconnection and resentment.

The joy and laughter we once shared seemed to be obscured by the demands of parenting. Our communication sometimes revolved more around schedules, child-rearing decisions, and household logistics rather than the deep connection and collaboration we envisioned.

The balance between nurturing your children and nurturing your marital bond might have felt like a delicate act, where the responsibilities of parenthood took precedence over your partnership.

This shift can gradually erode the closeness you once shared, leading to a disconnect that might weaken the foundation of your relationship. Plus it's a terrible role model for kids, am I right?

It's time to reclaim that balance and evolve into the fantastic co-parenting couple you aspire to be – blending the roles of loving partners and supportive parents in a way that not only strengthens your family but also deepens your bond.

Do any of these scenarios resonate?

  • Do you dream of finding harmony between parenting duties and maintaining your identity as a loving couple, but find it challenging to strike that equilibrium?
  • Do you wish to enhance your communication skills to address parenting decisions together while also nurturing your connection as partners?
  • Are you seeking to rediscover the joy of parenting as a united front, creating a solid foundation for your children while also nurturing the strong partnership that brought you together in the first place?
 
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"I have been finally able to have non reactive, respectful, hard, difficult conversations with my partner, about the most potentially triggering things - namely our parenting styles."
- Elizabeth

 Marriage Upgrade #4 

Co-Parent

From Undermined to Aligned

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10 Videos, 5-20 minutes each Designed to be memorable, punchy and impactful
PDF Journal: To take all of your insights and put them into action
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Key topics: Parenting styles and conflicts, united front, respect and communication with the children
1 week, 20 minutes per day Plus time for the PDF Journal and practicing what you've learnt!
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Do you ever feel like your journey as parents is overshadowing your partnership as a married couple? It's a sentiment I understand well – there was a time when my focus on parenting my way completely overshadowed my marriage and led us to disconnection and resentment.

The joy and laughter we once shared seemed to be obscured by the demands of parenting. Our communication sometimes revolved more around schedules, child-rearing decisions, and household logistics rather than the deep connection and collaboration we envisioned.

The balance between nurturing your children and nurturing your marital bond might have felt like a delicate act, where the responsibilities of parenthood took precedence over your partnership.

This shift can gradually erode the closeness you once shared, leading to a disconnect that might weaken the foundation of your relationship. Plus it's a terrible role model for kids, am I right?

It's time to reclaim that balance and evolve into the fantastic co-parenting couple you aspire to be – blending the roles of loving partners and supportive parents in a way that not only strengthens your family but also deepens your bond.

Do any of these scenarios resonate?

  • Do you dream of finding harmony between parenting duties and maintaining your identity as a loving couple, but find it challenging to strike that equilibrium?
  • Do you wish to enhance your communication skills to address parenting decisions together while also nurturing your connection as partners?
  • Are you seeking to rediscover the joy of parenting as a united front, creating a solid foundation for your children while also nurturing the strong partnership that brought you together in the first place?
 
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"I have been finally able to have non reactive, respectful, hard, difficult conversations with my partner, about the most potentially triggering things - namely our parenting styles."
- Elizabeth

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When You Join Married-U Today,
You're getting $6,799 in Value

(for only a fraction of the cost).

"What an amazing end to such a worthwhile experience. My relationship was always great but kids brought us pressure, resentment, irritability and things left unsaid (as well as loads of joy and love, of course). This course has completely brought down those walls and I feel closer than ever. Avital I cannot thank you enough. I never intended to spend money on this but your email spoke directly to my experience so I couldn't ignore it. I felt like it was all on me and this was 'one more thing' and unfair for our relationship to also be up to me. The reframing was a godsend. You were absolutely right, by me changing my behavior and mindset, our dynamic and my partner's behavior changed too. So much power! This is the best thing I've ever invested in and you are a superstar! I'm so glad you came into my life when I googled independent play and the social media algorithm led me to you."

- Barbara

🥳 Yep - there's more! 🥳

 Impactful Bonuses 

We want to ensure your success - which is why we are value-packing the program.
You gain access to these bonus trainings free with your Married-U enrollment. 

Bonus # 1

Peaceful Partner Meditation Album

Master Marriage with Self Hypnosis

Introducing our transformative meditation album designed to guide you on the path to becoming a peaceful and harmonious partner. This unique collection combines the power of soothing guided meditations with potent affirmations and cutting-edge neuronal rewiring techniques, all infused with the gentle influence of hypnosis. Embark on a journey that reshapes your thought patterns, fostering empathy, patience, and understanding in your relationship. Each meditation session is meticulously crafted to create a serene mental space where you can absorb positive affirmations that anchor your commitment to peaceful partnership. With our album as your guide, you'll rewire your mind, rejuvenate your connection, and cultivate a tranquil presence that emanates from within, fostering a lasting and loving bond with your partner.

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Free - Included in Married-U!

"Oh my goodness, I burst into tears within the first 60 seconds. So real, so moving."
- Meredith

Bonus # 1

Peaceful Partner Meditation Album

Master Marriage with Self Hypnosis

Introducing our transformative meditation album designed to guide you on the path to becoming a peaceful and harmonious partner. This unique collection combines the power of soothing guided meditations with potent affirmations and cutting-edge neuronal rewiring techniques, all infused with the gentle influence of hypnosis. Embark on a journey that reshapes your thought patterns, fostering empathy, patience, and understanding in your relationship. Each meditation session is meticulously crafted to create a serene mental space where you can absorb positive affirmations that anchor your commitment to peaceful partnership. With our album as your guide, you'll rewire your mind, rejuvenate your connection, and cultivate a tranquil presence that emanates from within, fostering a lasting and loving bond with your partner.

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Free - Included in Married-U!

"Oh my goodness, I burst into tears within the first 60 seconds. So real, so moving."
- Meredith

Bonus # 2

The Vault

Get real-time transformation as you learn from Avital's Live Coaching with students

Introducing "The Vault" - where you will travel in a time machine and be a fly on the wall, listening in on the intimate, honest, raw and real coaching sessions that Avital holds with your fellow students and marriage-travelers.

These in depth coaching sessions pack a punch - you get all the juicy behind-the-scenes, insider information - with none of the spotlight.

In our years teaching and coaching we have learned one thing in a profound way: the most powerful way to learn is through stories. And the most cost effective way to learn is through other people's stories - allowing you to leapfrog over their mistakes and sweep up the spoils with none of the battle scars.

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Free - Included in Married-U!

"I feel more loving and mature every time I listen."
- May

Bonus # 2

The Vault

Get real-time transformation as you learn from Avital's Live Coaching with students

Introducing "The Vault" - where you will travel in a time machine and be a fly on the wall, listening in on the intimate, honest, raw and real coaching sessions that Avital holds with your fellow students and marriage-travelers.

These in depth coaching sessions pack a punch - you get all the juicy behind-the-scenes, insider information - with none of the spotlight.

In our years teaching and coaching we have learned one thing in a profound way: the most powerful way to learn is through stories. And the most cost effective way to learn is through other people's stories - allowing you to leapfrog over their mistakes and sweep up the spoils with none of the battle scars.

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Free - Included in Married-U!

"I feel more loving and mature every time I listen."
- May

Bonus # 3

One Month of Desire Lab Membership

 

When you think about your husband, do you usually think things like:

A: "Hmph! He forgot to put his dishes in the dishwasher again!"

-or-

B: "Phew, is it hot in here? I'm blushing due to my uncontrollable thoughts about unzipping that man!"

If your answer was closer to A than to B, I have something super countercultural for you going down in the Desire Lab membership... and as a Married-U member, you'll get 1 month for free!

Because big itchy thoughts or burning questions like...

  • "How do I get that lovin' feeling back?"
  • "Why do I feel like I'm more of 'the man in the house'?"
  • "Is it terrible that I fantasize about my exes?"
  • "Why does it feel like my husband is another child?"
  • "What's that nagging sensation that 'there must be more'?"
  • "Why does my partner seem so incompetent?!"
  • "Why am I consistently just slightly unsatisfied?" 
  • "Why isn't he ripping my clothes off me anymore? Did I change that much?"

Need a solution. Pronto.

If your answer was B, then... Woohoo! Your relationship has got its energy balance perfected, desire is exciting, hypergamy is stabilized, sh*t tests are getting passed with flying colors, and your polarity ALL FIGURED OUT. 

But if you know your relationship/marriage could use some spark, fun, and nurturing maintenance - you'll definitely want to check out what's in store for you here! 

 
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Free - Included in Married-U!

"I’m in month 2 and highly recommend! Prioritizing marriage has benefitted all aspects of parenting/home life so far! Really it’s all about practical experiments/things to try to bring back the in-love feelings that were there between you when you were first dating."

- Sabrina

Bonus # 3

One Month of Desire Lab Membership

 

When you think about your husband, do you usually think things like:

A: "Hmph! He forgot to put his dishes in the dishwasher again!"

-or-

B: "Phew, is it hot in here? I'm blushing due to my uncontrollable thoughts about unzipping that man!"

If your answer was closer to A than to B, I have something super countercultural for you going down in the Desire Lab membership... and as a Married-U member, you'll get 1 month for free!

Because big itchy thoughts or burning questions like...

  • "How do I get that lovin' feeling back?"
  • "Why do I feel like I'm more of 'the man in the house'?"
  • "Is it terrible that I fantasize about my exes?"
  • "Why does it feel like my husband is another child?"
  • "What's that nagging sensation that 'there must be more'?"
  • "Why does my partner seem so incompetent?!"
  • "Why am I consistently just slightly unsatisfied?" 
  • "Why isn't he ripping my clothes off me anymore? Did I change that much?"

Need a solution. Pronto.

If your answer was B, then... Woohoo! Your relationship has got its energy balance perfected, desire is exciting, hypergamy is stabilized, sh*t tests are getting passed with flying colors, and your polarity ALL FIGURED OUT. 

But if you know your relationship/marriage could use some spark, fun, and nurturing maintenance - you'll definitely want to check out what's in store for you here! 

 
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Free - Included in Married-U!

"I’m in month 2 and highly recommend! Prioritizing marriage has benefitted all aspects of parenting/home life so far! Really it’s all about practical experiments/things to try to bring back the in-love feelings that were there between you when you were first dating."

- Sabrina

...and of course:

3 Monthly Live Tough Love Coaching Sessions with Avital 

Avital's "Tough Love" marriage-coaching sessions – a dynamic blend of unwavering support, deep understanding, and unapologetic candor. Avital fearlessly tackles the most challenging aspects of relationships and leads you through the intricacies of modern-day partnerships. Get ready to emerge as a couple who confronts the toughest issues with confidence and a renewed sense of purpose.

Armed with Avital's powerful Mindsets, you'll navigate the complexities of marriage with finesse, authenticity, and a touch of tough love. Together, you'll triumph over obstacles, emerging stronger and more connected than ever before. So buckle up and get ready to revolutionize your relationship like champions!

 "This is one of the best things I did for myself, for my family. Life c hanging is no exaggeration. I have gained so many valuable mindset changes I feel so empowered." - Tila 

 Value - Priceless
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Free - Included in Married-U!

 You have nothing to lose, and everything to gain: Our rock-solid 100% Satisfaction Guarantee!  

Introducing our rock-solid 100% Satisfaction Guarantee! If for any reason you're not head over heels in love with the program, no worries – you've got until February 16, 2025 to cancel and receive a full refund. Why do we offer this? Because we're 100% confident in our program, and we know that if you show up and give it your all, you'll see mind-blowing results. So go ahead, take the leap and rest easy knowing you're covered by our no-nonsense guarantee. Let's make some magic happen together!

Here's Everything You're Getting When You Join Today!

Let's do some math. Everyone's favorite. 😉

 
 
 The Married-U Core Curriculum 

70 Lessons To Set The Foundations of A Thriving Marriage
($1,500 Value)
INCLUDED
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The 4 Married-U Marriage Upgrades 

Up-level the Four Key Areas of Your Relationship: Become formidable Partners, Friends, Lovers and Coparents
($2,500 Value)
INCLUDED
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3 Epic Bonuses 

Keep the spark alive, manage the inevitable conflicts with ease and enjoy a deep sense of peace and mindfulness with these brilliant bonuses. 
($1,500 Value)
FREE
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3 Tough Love Coaching Sessions with Avital 

Personalize the Married-U curriculum to YOU by getting your core questions answered in Avital's famous candid, authentic and mind-blowing coaching sessions.
Priceless
FREE
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Total Value $6,799
Total Married U Investment: $2499
Get Started Today for just $525

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They did it, so can you...

Hear what students from my couples course have shared in the past

*Names& faces changed where requested

- Myriam

"I just want to share how much better things are going with my husband. My mindset has completely changed and I can see where he’s coming from instead of getting defensive. A game changer! We're more connected than ever before."

- Jeanette

"I went to my husband mid video and kissed him and said... babe I'm all in. The transformation is so powerful, it’s impacted the quality of all of our lives"

"My partner and I have such different value systems and ways of parenting. The conflict was so difficult that I thought maybe it was better to exit the relationship. I began taking Married-U and slowly found myself becoming more peaceful and accepting of his style. I began to embody in my heart that the only change I can really make is within myself. I stopped trying to change him and our relationship got so much better. It’s been about 4 or 5 months now and we rarely have conflicts anymore. The transformation is so powerful, it’s impacted the quality of all of our lives."
- Galina

"The tools are very powerful"

My marriage wasn't turning out the way I imagined it would. We have different values and ideas about certain things. I didn't think that was going to affect everyday life but when you're in the midst of it, you feel stuck.That made me question if it was worth it to continue with the marriage. Being a member, I felt understood and it normalized what I was going through. I started to realize it could be overcome, and I was very happy I joined the course. The very first module was very mind-shifting which talked about going 'all in'. I realized being in in/out mode was draining me and not allowing me to move forward. It really goes from A to Z. People are real and share their vulnerabilities so you feel you're not alone.
- Gail

"In my mind, even if money was difficult for me, I asked myself how much my marriage was worth. I could spend that money on going out and taking vacations, but if I'm going to be miserable while I'm doing those things, then what's the point? That's why I don't mind spending money on whatever is going to be emotionally helpful for me."

- Meredith

"If you want to help your marriage and you want to be the best parent you can, this encompasses all of it"

I felt overwhelmed and burned out. I thought it was too stressful to have two full-time jobs and two small kids and manage a household, and maybe we'd be better off apart. It was such an important investment, not only as a parent and a partner but for me personally. If you want to help your marriage and you want to be the best parent you can, this encompasses all of it. You deserve that joy and that transformation. It’s a no-brainer.

What Sets Married-U Apart?

 1 
We Walk The Walk
Unlike many marriage or parenting experts who teach theories, we live the married-parenting life every day. Our entire team is made up of real parents juggling work-life balance, self-care, marriage, and more. Avital, a mother of five with a toddler and a tween, has been married for 17 years. She has experienced the very same struggles, disappointments and frustrations our students experience. Theory is good but practice is better. This isn't just a job for us – it's our reality.
 2 
Marriage skills, not apathy
When you go to therapy these days you'll usually find an affirmative model - a therapist who is completely agnostic about your marriage and who offers you the "equal" options of ending the marriage or continuing - either way she can help you and walk you through it, judgement free. But those of us who don't want to get divorced need much more support than that! We need tools, skills and a game-plan to not only stay married but to find our marriage meaningful and full-filling...for life. If you want to save a wilting marriage - or upgrade a stable one to off-the-charts bliss, this course will not only encourage you but give you the practical tools to get results. 
 3 
Self-Study - Max Results
Rather than dragging a begrudging partner to expensive therapy - you have full control. Married-U is designed for one partner to take, make changes in yourself, which is a far more effective way of making fast changes to the marriage.

Or as Amina, a student put it: "Two partners don't have to take this course because it only takes one person to change the whole dynamic. The moment we change ourselves, people start behaving differently. That is the only thing we have complete power and control over." 
 4 
100% Satisfaction Guaranteed
When you go to marriage therapy, there are no guarantees. In fact, the incentives are lined up for you to continue to come - week after week (decade after decade?!), after all - that's what keeps your therapist in business.
We're all about results. We have helped over 5,000 families from over 100 countries around the world, from newbie expectant parents to families of 8. We know our approach works. If you don't love it for any reason - just let us know by February 16, 2025 and you will receive a full refund. 

What Sets Married-U Apart?

 1 
We Walk The Walk
Unlike many marriage or parenting experts who teach theories, we live the married-parenting life every day. Our entire team is made up of real parents juggling work-life balance, self-care, marriage, and more. Avital, a mother of five with a toddler and a tween, has been married for 17 years. She has experienced the very same struggles, disappointments and frustrations our students experience. Theory is good but practice is better. This isn't just a job for us – it's our reality.
 2 
Marriage skills, not apathy
When you go to therapy these days you'll usually find an affirmative model - a therapist who is completely agnostic about your marriage and who offers you the "equal" options of ending the marriage or continuing - either way she can help you and walk you through it, judgement free. But those of us who don't want to get divorced need much more support than that! We need tools, skills and a game-plan to not only stay married but to find our marriage meaningful and full-filling...for life. If you want to save a wilting marriage - or upgrade a stable one to off-the-charts bliss, this course will not only encourage you but give you the practical tools to get results. 
 3 
Self-Study - Max Results
Rather than dragging a begrudging partner to expensive therapy - you have full control. Married-U is designed for one partner to take, make changes in yourself, which is a far more effective way of making fast changes to the marriage.

Or as Amina, a student put it: "Two partners don't have to take this course because it only takes one person to change the whole dynamic. The moment we change ourselves, people start behaving differently. That is the only thing we have complete power and control over." 
 4 
100% Satisfaction Guaranteed
When you go to marriage therapy, there are no guarantees. In fact, the incentives are lined up for you to continue to come - week after week (decade after decade?!), after all - that's what keeps your therapist in business.
We're all about results. We have helped over 5,000 families from over 100 countries around the world, from newbie expectant parents to families of 8. We know our approach works. If you don't love it for any reason - just let us know by February 16, 2025 and you will receive a full refund. 

FAQ

How Much Does Married-U Cost? Explain the payment structure - no fine print please! 

Married-U normally costs $2,499 (or 3 monthly payments of $929) but you can get it today for a one time payment of only $1,359 (or 3 monthly payments of $525). This low price is our Hi Fam Insiders only so if you're on the fence about diving in - do it now!

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Is this Parent In Love?

No. Parent In Love was our first couples course, released in 2018. This is a brand new course. We still stand by everything taught in Parent In Love - but Married-U is significantly different. If you've taken Parent In Love before - you still have access to the course for as long as we're running it. But you will definitely still find value in Married-U and we hope you'll join! One key upgrade is that Married-U is built of binge-able shorter-form videos and the course is highly structured. Both courses are fab but of course this is the newer, shinier one with some serious upgrades and brand new materials developed over the past few years!

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How much time will it take to go through the course?

That's completely up to you! Here is the breakdown of what releases each week.
Aim to set aside approximately 1.5 hours a week to go through each module.
 
The Course: About 1.5 hours per week to get through, if you want to watch the videos as they release (which is not mandatory, you can totally take it slower if you like). Schedule in another 30 minutes or so for journaling and reflecting upon what you've learnt.  
 
Group Coaching: About 1 hour per month for 3 months - you can show up live or watch the replays at your liesure. 
Bonuses: Go at your own pace!
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Is this all online? Anything in person? 

Married-U is an online experience. It includes 3 live group coaching sessions over zoom which will be recorded and made accessible after the event.  
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Doesn't my partner have to do this too?

Nope. In fact, we don't really recommend it. Dragging your partner to watch the videos might backfire and cause yet more unneeded tension. Plus it's just not necessary for your success.

As Jeanette, one student, wrote in: "My partner didn’t even take the course. The shift in my mindset alone allowed our relationship to flourish. I stepped into a place of gratitude and appreciation for ‘what is’ instead of trying to create what I thought I was missing. It’s a whole new way of being and I’m beyond impressed with the power of the information and the alchemy that it’s created in my relationship."

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Is everything recorded? I'm worried about making it to live sessions.

Yes. No matter what time zone you're in, you won't miss a thing. We will have our live group coaching - once per month. If that time doesn't work for you, you will be able to view the recording. Plus, you will be prompted to send in your personal questions before the live session so Avital can address the particulars that are ailing you. All other content is available at any time. 
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What's the difference between Married-U and Desire Lab?

Desire Lab is a membership designed to keep that simmer going. Spark and re-spark chemistry, learn to fan the flames of passion in the long term and work on improving your intimate connection and your deep bond. Every month you receive a brand new experiment, and a date-script, plus a deep dive, extra juicy and raw group coaching session with me where we tackle: what might be giving you the ick and how to get that lovin' feeling back. It's fun. It's fast-paced. It's playful. You'll love it.

Married-University is entirely different. A 12-week course with lifetime access - this is the university degree you never got on how to create the marriage you want with the partner you've got. You'll learn the hard skills you didn't see at home for key mindsets and powerful communication skills and you'll elevate your marriage in four key areas, as friends, lovers, co-parents, and partners. Married-U is bingeable, a video course with journals AND live coaching and many powerful bonuses - but it is not a membership. It's a one-time investment and a self-study course.

Desire Lab is essentially:
A) The community component of Married-U. This is where you can connect with other students and pool wisdom and camaraderie.
B) The ongoing maintenance of what you learn in Married-U. After you go through the program initially, you will need to keep practicing and keep things fresh and full of desire - that's where Desire Lab comes in.

These two complement each other perfectly! I'll see you on the inside!

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Is Married-U faith-based?

Married-U is complimentary with any faith. We are not affiliated with any religion and the curriculum and coaching are not based on any particular faith. We have members from every major religion, and members from no religion. In fact, our team is comprised of Jewish, Christian, Muslim and Atheist parents - yes, really. We celebrate this diversity. However, all of our content is designed to help you to live your unique values and we encourage you to create a home culture that deeply reflects your belief system and way of life. One thing we have absolute faith in is YOU!

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What are your credentials? How do I know if this will work?

We have thousands of members who have been in our program for years and we know, without a doubt, that it works. Just read some of the stories on this page! But if you want the humble brag: Avital is a certified parenting coach with many years of experience, teaching on stages, podcasts and books, holding retreats and speaking on stages from LA to Abu Dhabi to Costa Rica. She's a published author and a married mother of 5 with close to 2 decades of marriage herself! 

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What if I'm a working parent?

Great! Join the club. Many of our members are stay-at-home moms, but many more are working moms. We have people from all walks of life. You will find your way of engaging with this content and applying it during the time you have available. There's no rush, here in Married-U, you can relax and rest assured knowing that we will pace you in a gradual, consistent and totally sustainable way towards the changes you desire. 

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What if my family is blended... adoptive...fostering...single parent...etc

We love and accept your family however you come. We think it's amazing that families come in all shapes and sizes, you are welcome here! 

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Do You Have A Refund Policy?

We back our program with a 100% satisfaction-free guarantee. You can even start the program and get access to the first two modules - if for any reason you don't love the program (unlikely!) — just email us before July 28, 2025 and you’ll get a full refund. After this date, there are no further refunds with no exceptions.
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More Questions?

Do you have more questions about Married-U? Email us at hello@hifam.com where our amazing support team of fellow moms are standing by happy to answer any questions you have.

FAQ

How Much Does Married-U Cost? Explain the payment structure - no fine print please! 

Married-U normally costs $2,499 (or 3 monthly payments of $929) but you can get it today for a one time payment of only $1,359 (or 3 monthly payments of $525). This low price is our Hi Fam Insiders only so if you're on the fence about diving in - do it now!

arrow_drop_down_circle
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Is this Parent In Love?

No. Parent In Love was our first couples course, released in 2018. This is a brand new course. We still stand by everything taught in Parent In Love - but Married-U is significantly different. If you've taken Parent In Love before - you still have access to the course for as long as we're running it. But you will definitely still find value in Married-U and we hope you'll join! One key upgrade is that Married-U is built of binge-able shorter-form videos and the course is highly structured. Both courses are fab but of course this is the newer, shinier one with some serious upgrades and brand new materials developed over the past few years!

arrow_drop_down_circle
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How much time will it take to go through the course?

That's completely up to you! Here is the breakdown of what releases each week.
Aim to set aside approximately 1.5 hours a week to go through each module.
 
The Course: About 1.5 hours per week to get through, if you want to watch the videos as they release (which is not mandatory, you can totally take it slower if you like). Schedule in another 30 minutes or so for journaling and reflecting upon what you've learnt.  
 
Group Coaching: About 1 hour per month for 3 months - you can show up live or watch the replays at your liesure. 
Bonuses: Go at your own pace!
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Is this all online? Anything in person? 

Married-U is an online experience. It includes 3 live group coaching sessions over zoom which will be recorded and made accessible after the event.  
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Doesn't my partner have to do this too?

Nope. In fact, we don't really recommend it. Dragging your partner to watch the videos might backfire and cause yet more unneeded tension. Plus it's just not necessary for your success.

As Jeanette, one student, wrote in: "My partner didn’t even take the course. The shift in my mindset alone allowed our relationship to flourish. I stepped into a place of gratitude and appreciation for ‘what is’ instead of trying to create what I thought I was missing. It’s a whole new way of being and I’m beyond impressed with the power of the information and the alchemy that it’s created in my relationship."

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Is everything recorded? I'm worried about making it to live sessions.

Yes. No matter what time zone you're in, you won't miss a thing. We will have our live group coaching - once per month. If that time doesn't work for you, you will be able to view the recording. Plus, you will be prompted to send in your personal questions before the live session so Avital can address the particulars that are ailing you. All other content is available at any time. 
arrow_drop_down_circle
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What's the difference between Married-U and Desire Lab?

Desire Lab is a membership designed to keep that simmer going. Spark and re-spark chemistry, learn to fan the flames of passion in the long term and work on improving your intimate connection and your deep bond. Every month you receive a brand new experiment, and a date-script, plus a deep dive, extra juicy and raw group coaching session with me where we tackle: what might be giving you the ick and how to get that lovin' feeling back. It's fun. It's fast-paced. It's playful. You'll love it.

Married-University is entirely different. A 12-week course with lifetime access - this is the university degree you never got on how to create the marriage you want with the partner you've got. You'll learn the hard skills you didn't see at home for key mindsets and powerful communication skills and you'll elevate your marriage in four key areas, as friends, lovers, co-parents, and partners. Married-U is bingeable, a video course with journals AND live coaching and many powerful bonuses - but it is not a membership. It's a one-time investment and a self-study course.

Desire Lab is essentially:
A) The community component of Married-U. This is where you can connect with other students and pool wisdom and camaraderie.
B) The ongoing maintenance of what you learn in Married-U. After you go through the program initially, you will need to keep practicing and keep things fresh and full of desire - that's where Desire Lab comes in.

These two complement each other perfectly! I'll see you on the inside!

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Is Married-U faith-based?

Married-U is complimentary with any faith. We are not affiliated with any religion and the curriculum and coaching are not based on any particular faith. We have members from every major religion, and members from no religion. In fact, our team is comprised of Jewish, Christian, Muslim and Atheist parents - yes, really. We celebrate this diversity. However, all of our content is designed to help you to live your unique values and we encourage you to create a home culture that deeply reflects your belief system and way of life. One thing we have absolute faith in is YOU!

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What are your credentials? How do I know if this will work?

We have thousands of members who have been in our program for years and we know, without a doubt, that it works. Just read some of the stories on this page! But if you want the humble brag: Avital is a certified parenting coach with many years of experience, teaching on stages, podcasts and books, holding retreats and speaking on stages from LA to Abu Dhabi to Costa Rica. She's a published author and a married mother of 5 with close to 2 decades of marriage herself! 

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What if I'm a working parent?

Great! Join the club. Many of our members are stay-at-home moms, but many more are working moms. We have people from all walks of life. You will find your way of engaging with this content and applying it during the time you have available. There's no rush, here in Married-U, you can relax and rest assured knowing that we will pace you in a gradual, consistent and totally sustainable way towards the changes you desire. 

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What if my family is blended... adoptive...fostering...single parent...etc

We love and accept your family however you come. We think it's amazing that families come in all shapes and sizes, you are welcome here! 

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Do You Have A Refund Policy?

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 Hi, I'm Avital 

This is your opportunity to be coached by Avital, she has helped thousands of parents from over 100 countries around the world to transform their marriage and family life. 

I know, firsthand, how challenging it is to enjoy your marriage and family life. Even though I love my family more than anything in the world - I have found myself wanting to escape, fantasizing about alone time and wishing it Wasn't. So. Hard.

Todays families and marriages are crumbling. More disconnected than ever. And the primary emotion many couples feel today is: anxiety or even resenment.

But it doesn't have to be that way. You didn't start your family just to suffer through it, waiting for bedtime every day.

The good news is: there are proven, scientific and heart-centered methods to building a tremendously meaningful and enjoyable family life. You don't have to crack the code from scratch. I'm here to break down for you exactly the steps to take to ensure that your family doesn't become another sad statistic.

Let me do the heavy lifting for you. I read the books, study the research and test out these concepts in my real life lab: my family of 7. With a tremendous respect for ancient traditions and a huge passion for the freedom of modern life - allow me to offer you the blueprint to modern family life. 

 Hi, I'm Avital 

This is your chance to be coached by Avital! She has helped thousands of parents from over 100 countries around the world to transform their marriage and family life. 

I know, firsthand, how challenging it is to enjoy your family life. Even though I love my family more than anything in the world - I have found myself wanting to escape, fantasizing about alone time and wishing it Wasn't. So. Hard.

Todays families are crumbling. More disconnected than ever. And the primary emotion many parents and children feel today is: anxiety.

But it doesn't have to be that way. You didn't start your family just to suffer through it, waiting for bedtime every day.

The good news is: there are proven, scientific and heart-centered methods to building a tremendously meaningful and enjoyable family life. You don't have to crack the code from scratch. I'm here to break down for you exactly the steps to take to ensure that your family doesn't become another sad statistic.

Let me do the heavy lifting for you. I read the books, study the research and test out these concepts in my real life lab: my family of 7. With a tremendous respect for ancient traditions and a huge passion for the freedom of modern life - allow me to offer you the blueprint to modern family life. 

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